“I was abused, molested, insulted and frightened by my older brother when I was seven and he was 13. He had a waist-high stack of pornographic magazines. It is something I will never, ever forget. Pornography is about hate for women, power over women, revenge on...
One glorious afternoon in October, I made a pilgrimage to Farnham Park Rehabilitation Centre in leafy Buckinghamshire to research my book, It Could Never Happen To Me: A Guide To Surviving Road Accidents. I drove to the red-brick Victorian house set in landscaped...
I confess. I can find it hard to say “no” to my six-year-old, especially when she throws me a winsome smile with an eyelash fluttering; “Pleeese.” Indeed, my dear mother-in-law chortled at my writing this article, as she has seen me skirt round the dreaded N-word on...
Can you see yourself draped over a chaise-longue, sipping chilled champagne and taking a letter from Steven Spielberg? Just fantasy? Or could it be reality? Each year thousands of women are lured into the glamour industries – the film and music business, TV and radio,...
“I didn’t have an orgasm until I was 54”, admits Zena Zulman, a glamourous 74 year-old candidly, “but I now can’t have enough. I’d have sex everyday if I could, but Alan cuts it down to three or four times a week”. Alan, a dapper and strikingly fit 69 year-old, and...
I’m a slack mum, I’ll confess. My “spit spot” friends have their kids fed, bathed, storied and tucked up by 7.30 every night. Meanwhile, my six-year-old daughter might be prancing round the living room like a pop star, or lapping milk from a bowl like a cat until we...
Carol, 29, is only ever happy in the company of men. She works exclusively with men, enjoys nights out with her 30-year-old husband Jeff and his male business friends and, at dinner parties, ensures she sits next to a man. It’s not that Carol is an outrageous flirt –...
Although it’s the 21st century, many women are still running around trying to make everybody happy. Double-guessing their partner’s needs, putting everyone else first, wearing themselves to a frazzle wanting to be liked. Oprah Winfrey, the US talk-show queen, is a...
I never wanted children, so I went to the doctor at 21 and asked to be sterilised. She briskly sent me away to “think about it”, and life took over. Thank goodness I never went back, because, at the age of 43, I had my one and only, wonderful child. Something I thank...
Confidence. You’ve either got it or you haven’t. Or so we’re told… In fact, confidence is one of those emotions which you can actually fake quite well when you’re feeling pretty wobbly and insecure. Ironically, any successes you achieve while acting ‘as if’ you’re the...